The ring is on your finger and you’ve set a date, so you’d
better get planning for your dream wedding!
There’s so much to organise and you want everything to be
perfect, right down to the last detail.
Sometimes, unless you’ve got specific ideas already in mind,
it can be very overwhelming; where do you start?
Here are our top tips for starting, and surviving, the whole
planning process:
Don’t think you have to rush straight into planning mode the
moment you’ve said ‘yes’! Whether you’re planning a 12-week or 12-month
engagement, there’s plenty of time; so relax, breathe and take some time to savour
that ‘just engaged’ feeling.
2. Think about the
bigger picture
Would you prefer a church or ceremony at a licensed venue? A big or small
wedding? In the city, by the sea or in the country? Deciding on these main points
will help you decide on possible themes, colours and the overall style of your
wedding.
3. Decide on a budget
ASAP
It’s never a romantic conversation, but the sooner you can
sit down and decide on a budget and who’s responsible for what, the better. Getting
organised and keeping up communication ensures everyone’s on board and avoids
potential conflicts. And the sooner you get it sorted, the sooner you can move
on to sorting out the fun stuff, like cake and dresses.
Spend money on what’s important and work out how to save
money on what’s not. Do you have a friend that can make you amazing playlists,
avoiding the need for a DJ and leaving more money for your dream dress? Can you
make your flowers go further than just the church and use them in your
reception venue too? One thing you may not want to scrimp on is a photographer;
capturing the memories of your special day is important, so find the right
person for the job.
5. Don’t get lost in
details
So many couples lose sight of what their big day is all
about, getting lost in minutiae and exceeding everyone’s expectations,
including their own. Whether it’s staying within budget or making family happy,
remember why you’re doing this and be realistic.
Rule-breaking can be great at weddings; taking something
fairly traditional and adding a unique, fresh twist can be inspiring and
refreshing and great for you and your guests. Why not take the indoors outdoors and
create a reception under the stars, complete with chandeliers, sofas and sumptuous
throws and cushions to create a laid-back, luxurious feel? Dare to do something different!
However you plan your wedding, remember to make it ‘you’ and
inject it with your personalities, tastes and styles, so you can truly enjoy
your special day and treasure it for years to come.
